Stain

Meat sandwiches, Christina Suprise, and jazz.

January 11, 2012 at 12:02pm
Home
Reblogged from staypozitive
pie0:

delacroix:

Let’s break this pseudo-romantic-comedy bullshit down, shall we: 

“She’ll scream and fight with you, but secretly, she loves it. […] Tickle her, even when she tells you to stop. When she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. […] Get her mad, then kiss her.”

It’s stuff like this that supports rape culture. This isn’t love or romance or even cute. This mentality encourages men to disrespect and manipulate women’s boundaries and feelings, and it teaches women that their boundaries and feelings don’t fucking matter. 
And this kind of post on Tumblr becomes dangerous because it’s being peddled to teenagers by a blogger who describes his blog like this: “I post a lot about relationships, often from a girl’s perspective to prove that there are still guys out there who understand and respect them.”, which seemingly normalizes and validates this absurd crap. Fuck that.
PROTIP: If someone screams and fights you, stop. If someone tells you to stop, stop. Women are real people and, thus, deserve to have their feelings and boundaries considered and respected. 

What she said ^^^

Oh come on, guys! This is a little extreme. I don’t care for that romantic bullshit, and I don’t like it when people pretend to throw me in the pool, but jeez! Playing is natural. I tell Marty to stop tickling me all the time, because well, who likes being tickled? But it’s still fun. What, is tickling illegal now, too? Judging by the demeanor of half of the women these days, if they REALLY didn’t like being tickled, they’d probably skip the bullshit and punch the man in his face. But honestly…I refuse to become some uptight bitch running around going I.HAVE.RIGHTS.TOO.BEEP.BEEP. Please. Rape is one thing, but please. Don’t compare it to playing around with your significant other.

pie0:

delacroix:

Let’s break this pseudo-romantic-comedy bullshit down, shall we: 

“She’ll scream and fight with you, but secretly, she loves it. […] Tickle her, even when she tells you to stop. When she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. […] Get her mad, then kiss her.”

It’s stuff like this that supports rape culture. This isn’t love or romance or even cute. This mentality encourages men to disrespect and manipulate women’s boundaries and feelings, and it teaches women that their boundaries and feelings don’t fucking matter. 

And this kind of post on Tumblr becomes dangerous because it’s being peddled to teenagers by a blogger who describes his blog like this: “I post a lot about relationships, often from a girl’s perspective to prove that there are still guys out there who understand and respect them.”, which seemingly normalizes and validates this absurd crap. Fuck that.

PROTIP: If someone screams and fights you, stop. If someone tells you to stop, stop. Women are real people and, thus, deserve to have their feelings and boundaries considered and respected. 

What she said ^^^

Oh come on, guys! This is a little extreme. I don’t care for that romantic bullshit, and I don’t like it when people pretend to throw me in the pool, but jeez! Playing is natural. I tell Marty to stop tickling me all the time, because well, who likes being tickled? But it’s still fun. What, is tickling illegal now, too? Judging by the demeanor of half of the women these days, if they REALLY didn’t like being tickled, they’d probably skip the bullshit and punch the man in his face. But honestly…I refuse to become some uptight bitch running around going I.HAVE.RIGHTS.TOO.BEEP.BEEP. Please. Rape is one thing, but please. Don’t compare it to playing around with your significant other.

(Source: staypozitive)

Notes

  1. naomidynamics reblogged this from soulphase
  2. nieniesrevenge reblogged this from stormsbreadth
  3. followtherabbitintowonderland reblogged this from sherlocked-inside-the-tardis
  4. sophiemofie reblogged this from bittergrapes and added:
    ^^ agreed with the above, if you picked me up and pretended to throw me into a pool there’s a 100% chance i’d throw ice...
  5. bennydickcum reblogged this from stormsbreadth
  6. jeguseiryn reblogged this from bloody-torchwood and added:
    ^ What everyone above has said. This sort of thing is upsetting because then guys think that they should trust this more...
  7. stormsbreadth reblogged this from nothingtokillordiefor
  8. soulphase reblogged this from queen-of-hearts92
  9. queen-of-hearts92 reblogged this from mermaidkotoni
  10. heeend reblogged this from allonsyhaley
  11. monalesa101 reblogged this from halalbacon
  12. disneymonfangirl reblogged this from allonsyhaley
  13. halalbacon reblogged this from smileyouareyoung
  14. smileyouareyoung reblogged this from allonsyhaley
  15. mermaidkotoni reblogged this from allonsyhaley
  16. allonsyhaley reblogged this from kaitkait3
  17. kaitkait3 reblogged this from pinkfluffyrainbow
  18. impala-blowjob reblogged this from nothingtokillordiefor
  19. teamgingerbread reblogged this from pinkfluffyrainbow
  20. pinkfluffyrainbow reblogged this from tumbleweednachos
  21. yoshi-09 reblogged this from sydviciouserr
  22. exoticteapot reblogged this from diddle-chan
  23. diddle-chan reblogged this from shippingdrarryandjohnlock
  24. 5omewhereovatherainbow reblogged this from freedom-star
  25. rahsax reblogged this from t92marihoene
  26. thenamelesslady reblogged this from fexual and added:
    ^^^This all, so much… I freaking hate this “woman is some kind of metally challenged kitten” subtext.
  27. underthemangotree reblogged this from goldentulips and added:
    Those last lines say it all.
  28. momoichi reblogged this from psychopathicprincess
  29. blindbanker reblogged this from freedom-star and added:
    BLESS THIS FUCKING POST. Shit like this makes me so angry. People legitimately think this is like, chivalrous and...
  30. morwenrose reblogged this from pixelfishie